It is so ordered.
“No union is more profound than marriage, for it embodies the highest ideals of love, fidelity, devotion, sacrifice, and family. In forming a marital union, two people become something greater than once they were. As some of the petitioners in these cases demonstrate, marriage embodies a love that may endure even past death. It would misunderstand these men and women to say they disrespect the idea of marriage. Their plea is that they do respect it, respect it so deeply that they seek to find its fulfillment for themselves. Their hope is not to be condemned to live in loneliness, excluded from one of civilization’s oldest institutions. They ask for equal dignity in the eyes of the law. The Constitution grants them that right.”
Aaaaand this is why the Internet is amazing: Katie lives in Oregon. Jesse lives in Texas. Thanks to the miracle of technology they met, fell in love, and nurtured a relationship for over 3 years before tying the knot in 2014.
Incorporating their long distance love into the decor with travel details like maps and suitcases, their wedding at Green Villa Barn was absolutely gorgeous!
Katie & Jess
Green Villa Barn & Gardens, Oregon
Event Date: August, 2014
Photographer: Tekoa Rose Photography//Event Venue:Green Villa Barn & Gardens// Submitted via Two Bright Lights
Recommended reading for today – especially those struggling with your wedding budget – is an excellent article from Slate.com in 2013:
The article’s writer, Will Oremus, does an excellent job of explaining the difference between “average” and “median” and why couples should beware of falling into the trap of thinking that “average” is what you should pay for a wedding.
In questioning TheKnot’s “average” wedding costs (which are frequently quoted and relied upon by media and industry folks), Oremus says:
In 2012, when the average wedding cost was $27,427, the median was $18,086. In 2011, when the average was $27,021, the median was $16,886. In Manhattan, where the widely reported average is $76,687, the median is $55,104. And in Alaska, where the average is $15,504, the median is a mere $8,440. In all cases, the proportion of couples who spent the “average” or more was actually a minority. And remember, we’re still talking only about the subset of couples who sign up for wedding websites and respond to their online surveys. The actual median is probably even lower.
In 12+ years of running this blog, it is constantly frustrating that reported wedding costs are nearly always inflated by averages – and that smart couples struggle to save the equivalent of an entire year’s wages to pay for a single wedding day. Or worse: they (and/or their parents) get into debt for it.
I’m curious what your thoughts are about the Slate article and if you’ve felt pressure to expand your budget to fit the industry model of average costs.